Archive For The “Sexuality” Category

Do I Have A Pornography Problem?

By | July 24, 2012

I was talking recently with a few friends about my role as a therapist and the general nature of the difficulties that people present with. One of the questions they asked was how I as a therapist assess and measure whether or not a client is dabbling in pornography or addicted to pornography. I replied [...]

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Sexual Addiction & Brain Arousal – Neurobiology of Internet Porn

By | September 12, 2011

I’ve seen a consistent theme with clients that present to my office with sexual addiction. This theme is a significant confusion about how they get their needs met. I find that many if not all of them come with beliefs and assumptions due to their addiction and history. These assumptions are in large part due to their [...]

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Secrets Keep You Emotionally Stuck

By | November 3, 2010

There is an old adage in the world of therapy and treatment, the adage is “Secrets Keep You Sick.” While I don’t personally affiliate myself or my thinking with terms like ‘sick’, I do find that secrets in fact keep individuals stuck. Stuck in unhealthy relationships, stuck in unhappiness, and stuck in frustration.I remember working [...]

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Utah Coalition Against Pornography Comes To Southern Utah

By | November 1, 2010

Just a quick post here.  One of my good friends Geof is speaking at the UCAP conference this weekend. Looks like it’ll be a solid event the details are below.Protecting Children and Families from Pornography and Other Harmful MaterialsSaturday, November 6, 20109:00am – 1:00pmDixie CenterSt. George, UtahSouthern Utah UCAP Regional Conference“The Utah Coalition Against Pornography has become [...]

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Full List of Blog Articles by Justin Stum

By | July 22, 2003

How Do I Know If My Pornography Use Is A Problem, Habit, or Addiction? What Is It Most Women Really Want? Helicopter Grandparenting: When Helping Becomes Hovering and Harming Addicted: Those That Get Addicted and Those That Don’t Sexual Addiction & Brain Arousal – Neurobiology of Internet Porn Emotional Codependency in Marriage and Parenting Relationships [...]

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